My Causerie

"All great change in America begins at the dinner table." ~ Ronald Reagan

Come on; please join me this Sunday! May 5, 2015

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Photo Credit: stevenstiefel via Compfight cc

A few statistics that Pastor Bev shared in her e-note last week:

  • There are 160 million Americans who are unchurched
  • If invited to attend church, 31 percent said they would be “very likely” to come
  • 51 percent said they would be “somewhat likely” to come

That means 82 percent of the people who do not go to church in America are likely to attend if they are invited. Here are more statistics though:

  • Only 21 percent of active church goers ever invite anyone to church
  • Only 2 percent of active church goers invite the unchurched

Pastor Bev’s challenge to us all is to not be a part of the 21 percent or the 2 percent. Since social media allows for easy access to many, I thought that I would start with a simple online invitation. Maybe some of my Facebook friends are not currently attending church, and maybe some of my Facebook friends fall into that 82 percent.

So, I am extending the invitation to  you. Awe, come on, won’t you please join me at Highland Hope. We have some hot music! We get down! What do you say? Message me if you need a ride, and Jim and I will pick you up!





ACS Students Taking Spring by Storm April 1, 2015

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“We Are One” Diversity Speech Competition

The spring winds have nothing on the students in the Department of Applied Communication Studies at SIUE. ACS students are blowing us away this semester!

Dan Schmidt, ACS alumnus and head of the Speech Center on campus, hosted the first “We Are One” Diversity Speech Competition, and it was a tremendous success.

Three of the final four speakers were from the Department of Applied Communication Studies. Christine Shepherd is studying organizational communication and took first place in the competition. McKenzi McClain and Ricky Rush are both studying public relations and placed second and third, respectively.

Kiley Herndon

Kiley Herndon

Later in the week, Kiley Herndon, studying public relations in the ACS Department and the current PRSSA-SIUE Chapter president, was selected as the College of Arts and Sciences student speaker at the Spring 2015 Commencement ceremony.

It doesn’t stop there though. Students in the Department of Applied Communication Studies are also high achieving athletes. Haley Chambers is an interpersonal communication student and pitcher extraordinaire. She recently became the first player in school history to throw two career perfect games. She was also recently featured on a KSDK Channel 5 sports segment.

Matt Dye

Matt Dye

Wait – there’s more! ACS alumni are also undertaking creative endeavors beyond the SIUE community. ACS alumnus Matt Dye is a trainer at Barry’s Bootcamp in Nashville, Tennessee, and he is currently in the top five to win the November cover of Men’s Health magazine. You can learn more about Matt and the competition and cast your daily vote right here.

Ariel Weinman

Ariel Weinman

Alumna Ariel Weinman is the reigning Miss Rodeo Illinois and will travel the country attending rodeos, parades and special events as an ambassador for the sport of rodeo and promoting the western way of life. Ariel will also take on the role of representative for her home state of Illinois and will work to raise awareness of pediatric cancer. There are multiple sponsorship levels available if you want to support Ariel during her year as Miss Rodeo Illinois.

This spring has been a whirlwind of excitement. Seeing current and former students using their communication skills to achieve their personal and professional goals is exciting, and there are many more ACS alumni out there doing amazing work – I’m just talking about the past few months!

What’s spring got in store for you? Pull up a chair and let’s talk.


Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner? February 19, 2015

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Guess who's coming to dinner?

Guess who’s coming to dinner?

This whole notion of “radical hospitality” seems to be something God wants me to hear because it has been brought to my attention in many ways over the past few weeks.
In the previous family sermon series, I heard about the importance of spending time around the family table and about the message that is communicated when you invite someone to sit in your living room.

Our small group just completed the Max Lucado study, “Outlive Your Life,” and this theme of radical hospitality seemed to still be pulling at me. Lucado reminded us of how in the beginning, the gospel was shared from home to home, and we were asked, “Is the gospel being shared from your home?” Lucado also gave us a lesson in Latin as he wrote: “Hospitality opens the door to uncommon community. It’s no accident that hospitality and hospital come from the same Latin word, for they both lead to the same result: healing. When you open your door to someone, you are sending this message: ‘You matter to me and to God.’ You may think you are saying, ‘Come over for a visit.’ But what your guest hears is, ‘I’m worth the effort.’”

So, I decided I wanted to be more intentional about my hospitality. I used to do much better at this, but it seems life gets busy and I let that hospitality wane. I am sure part of that reason stems from my “Martha” syndrome…so much to prepare and get done…are the ceiling fans dusted? Is the tablecloth pressed? None-the-less, I was ready to try. Once a month, I would invite someone new from our church family over for dinner. Ok, I thought; I’m listening; I’m being obedient.

Ha! God can have such a sense of humor! I pick up the church newsletter and there staring back at me is Pastor’s Lenten challenge: eat one meal a week with someone new from our church family. Once a week – did I read that right? But…since I tend to have somewhat of a competitive nature, I responded, “Ok, game on!

Then last night I attended Ash Wednesday services, and Pastor said that each of us should decide for ourselves what we will relinquish this Lenten season. So I put it to prayer, and I still thinking about this notion of radical hospitality and how God is really laying this upon my heart. I talked it over with my husband this morning, and we agreed: for the next 40 days, we are giving up going out: no going to the theater, no dinner out with friends.

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I’m not exactly sure what the next 40 days will bring, but I am going to do my best at practicing radical hospitality.

I am looking forward to the conversations around the dinner table. I am looking forward to making new friends, and I am looking forward to letting our guests hear through our actions, “You are worth the effort.”

So, do you want to join us for dinner? Pull up a chair and let’s talk!


Make blogging a new habit February 9, 2015

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Photo Credit: M.Ryan Photography via Compfight cc

It takes 21 days to form a new habit. Have you heard that before? Maybe this is true for some, but for most of us, it just doesn’t work that fast. The thing is, we shouldn’t even focus on the number of days it takes to form the new habit, but just start with day 1. We can’t get to day 21, 51 or 101 without starting with day 1.

One habit public relations students need to develop is writing and writing often. Blogging can serve as a fun and engaging channel for doing just that. However, the biggest argument made by many college students is, “I don’t have time to write.”

Well, I’ve done my part to help students meet this challenge; I have made blogging a class assignment! Just think, in approximately 120 days, you may well have established a new writing habit! You can thank me later.

To help you succeed in this new habit-forming endeavor, check out the seven tips in this article by Mike Fishbein, “How to find time to create great content.

Tip #1 on the list is to write about something you are enthusiastic about; this makes the writing process easier and more fun. If you enjoy the process, you are more likely to continue past day 1!

Tip #2 suggests you do other tasks in between your writing sessions. It’s common for writers to hit road blocks, but I also think most of us can recognize what time of day is our most productive for certain tasks. Uncover your productivity peaks and take advantage of them.

Tip #3 is all about time management. We live a 24/7 life. Trying to complete tasks today can be a challenge because we have “distractions” at our fingertips, which can make it tough to get through any “to-do” list. You need to find an organizational system that works for you.

Tip #4: Just say no! Ha ha…so much easier said than done, but it is possible; give it a try.

Tips 5 – 7 are about setting goals: intermediate goals, ambitious goals and measurable goals, and Fishbein gives some great advice for each of these. I like how he breaks them into separate entities; I think it speaks to the importance of each.

If you’ve been struggling trying to develop a writing habit with your new blogging assignment, take the time to read through Fishbein’s seven tips. I think his advice could very well put your blogging on the path to becoming a great writing habit!

In the meantime, pull up a chair and let’s talk.


Don’t Stop…Thinking About Tomorrow! January 30, 2015

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With a little help from Fleetwood Mac and a young PR professional by the name of Olivia Adams, I am here to remind students to “don’t stop thinking about tomorrow!”

Adams may be young, but she shares wisdom beyond her years in her post “8 Things They Don’t Tell You About Breaking into PR After College.” I’ve paraphrased her list here, but be sure to read her full post at Olivia Adams. She’s a great role model and offers sound advice for young professionals just beginning their careers.

1. Don’t stop networking. So, you’ve landed an amazing job; congratulations! Just remember whether it’s your first position or midway through your career, you need to continue to network. The “it’s who you know” adage doesn’t lose value as you progress through your career.

2. Don’t stop gaining experience. Adams mentions the possibility of taking a post-graduation internship. If you don’t land a job right after graduating, consider the value an internship can offer. It will allow you to continue learning and gaining experience, which will strengthen your resume. Although some internships may still be unpaid, there are some firms that offer paid internships for graduates.

3. Don’t stop building your brand. Basically, Adams reminds us that we cannot rest on our laurels, which can be an easy trap to fall into if everything is going along just “peachy.” My favorite part of her advice: “don’t forget about your PR peeps and your blog!”

4. Don’t stop discovering. This is especially good advice for current students because it reinforces the value in seeking diverse internships. Getting experience in different sectors of the industry gives you a chance to see what you like and what you don’t.

5. Don’t stop learning. Adams stresses the importance of understanding measurement when it comes to social media. So if you want to tout “social media expertise” on your resume, you have to understand how to measure those strategies.

6. Don’t stop collaborating. Public relations, advertising and marketing are increasingly more integrated. Content marketing plays a role in this collaborative effort. Understanding this role will make you a more competitive job candidate/employee.

7. Don’t stop side hustling. I have to admit, I had never heard the term “side hustle,” but I like the sound of it. We lead busy lives, and our jobs are often a big chunk of that busyness. So whether you call it a side hustle, work-life balance, giving back or just plain and simple, “me time,” I agree with Adams…it’s a beautiful thing!

8. Don’t stop writing. Ahhh, now I have to admit, I was excited to see this on the list! Being a solid writer is just so important to public relations professionals, and like any skill, the more you practice, the better you get at it. That’s why I like to see students blogging. Writing about something you are passionate about helps make the writing practice more fun, and hopefully, it will encourage students to continue writing.

What an awesome list, and remember, this advice is coming from someone who just graduated last year and is well on her way to a successful career – that’s encouragement right there! So don’t stop thinking about tomorrow because it will indeed soon be here! In the meantime, pull up a chair and let’s talk.


90 seconds to Success January 19, 2015

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Photo Credit: Leo Reynolds via Compfight cc

Nicolas Boothman created a list of 20 things you can do in 90 seconds. It’s an interesting list, and I have to admit, #14 caught my attention! I’m going to try that the next time I mix up a batch of chocolate chip cookie dough.

I also liked this list that was in today’s Bellville News Democrat. For students searching for summer internships or that first post-graduation job, the list shares tips about what could be the most important 90 seconds in your job search (click on the image to see the full list).

You should pay attention to all the points, but there are a few I would like to draw your attention to because they may surprise you. As noted in the article, the statistics come from a survey of 2,000 bosses. Now take a look at what may influence your potential boss:

1. Talk about first impressions! For many bosses, the way you dress, act and walk through the door tells them a lot about you. (55%)

2. Relating to the way you dress, you might want to hold back on the latest fashion trends. Most bosses seem to still go for the conservative look. (70%)

3. Staying with this fashion faux pas theme, consider how important your clothing choices are when bosses say clothes can be the deciding factor between two similar candidates. (65%)

4. You not only have to walk the walk, but talk the talk. The other interesting statistic is that the quality of your voice, grammar and overall confidence has a far greater impact than what you actually say. (38% vs. 7%)

I highlight these four points, but you certainly don’t want to avoid the other tips either. For example, when you do talk, be sure you know what you are talking about, which includes knowing about the company you are interviewing with. Having little or no knowledge about the company was noted as one of the most common mistakes made by job seekers.

And remember that chapter on nonverbal communication during your interpersonal communication class? If not, now is the time to refresh your memory. Nonverbal communication has a tremendous impact on your interviewing success.

So, what can you do in 90 seconds? Pull up a chair and let’s chat.

How Interviewers Know When to Hire You in 90 Seconds


Keep Calm and Smile On January 11, 2015

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Photo Credit: RobotSkirts via Compfight cc

“People assume you can’t be shy and be on television. They’re wrong.” – Diane Sawyer.
I think the same is true for those in the public relations industry, and it is something the quiet, more introverted aspiring public relations professionals need to know.

I would classify myself as a quiet, shy introvert…friends, colleagues, former employers and professors would all agree. In fact, in a glowing recommendation letter written by one of my former professors, she stated, “The phrase, ‘still waters run deep’ certainly describes Stacey Howard.” She also said I was her highest achieving student! From my military career to my role in academia, my quiet personality has never hindered my achievements – much to the surprise of some of my more extroverted colleagues.

Case in point: I was a sergeant in the United States Army. During my last tour of duty, I was assigned to an Army Reserve Command headquarters. Each year the headquarters staff would present at a conference in Kansas City. While at the conference, we were not obligated to attend the presentations of the other staff members. However, when it came time for me to present, I noticed my colleagues standing in the back of the room. After I completed my presentation, all their accolades and compliments told me that my colleagues were not expecting such a “performance.” In fact, they told me so!

Such success stemmed from my confidence in the skills I knew I had and what I could bring to the table for my employer. That’s why I like this blog post from PRowl staff member Emily Charles. She doesn’t just dismiss us quiet introverts, but rather shares some great tips on how to build the confidence that will lead to a successful career as a public relations professional.

So if you were thinking of turning around and running in a different career direction just because you didn’t score high enough on the latest “PR personality” quiz, stop right there. Just keep on reading; keep on asking questions; keep on smiling. Just keep on.

In the meantime, pull up a chair and let’s talk…one introvert to another!Smiley-06-june




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